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It is a hard thing for me to believe

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 I don't wear my ring This is a rare post; I don't often post about myself. If you were to look at my left hand, you would see I am not wearing my wedding ring; this isn't for vanity , or to see if ladies find me attractive without a ring, but for health reasons. To clear the air, here is the reason - one night I was sitting in a hotel room in Cheltenham - while I was waiting for the time to be near for me to go to the concert  was twiddling with the ring, When I glanced at my had, I was shocked, the ring had caused my fnger to swell to the extent t was lover than my joint. It was then I made the choice to take the ring off, and leave it off.  If I didn't do that, I saw myself with two choices ahead, either have the ring cut off, or lose the finger. As I am not vain, I never considered myself attractive to the ladies, knowing how they viewed me was one of the reasons I came online about 25 years ago.  It came as a shock to ne when a lady said she thought I am attr...